Arthur and Cathrine “Cathy” Bregman’s story reads like a novel written by fate itself. Though they grew up on opposite coasts—Cathy in the historic charm of Baltimore and Arthur amidst the bustling streets of New York—they both found themselves drawn to the sun-soaked shores of Miami, Florida, in the same month and year. Imagine living just across the street from someone for years without ever crossing paths, until destiny stepped in at a conference in 1981 and sparked a connection that would last a lifetime. For 43 years, Arthur and Cathy have been inseparable, sharing a love story woven with laughter, adventure, and deep companionship.



Their life together is a vibrant tapestry of shared passions, with the sea playing a starring role. Their motorized boat was more than just a vessel—it was a floating haven of family memories, where sun-kissed days were spent fishing, diving into crystal-clear waters, and drifting under endless blue skies. Their son Adam practically grew up on the boat, learning the rhythms of the sea and the joy of freedom it offers, becoming a confident and capable captain in his own right. Their wanderlust carried them across the globe, sailing on cruises through the sparkling turquoise of the Bahamas, the rich cultures of South America and Europe, the breathtaking landscapes of New Zealand, and even the icy wonder of Antarctica, where they marveled at penguins waddling in their frozen kingdom. Yet, despite these grand adventures, it was the neon glow and irresistible energy of Las Vegas that captured their hearts most—an “adult playground” they visited once per season (four times a year!), savoring the warm, dry air and the thrill of endless entertainment.

The Bregmans’ love extended beyond travel and adventure to the many furry friends who shared their journey. Over the years, their home was filled with the joyful chaos of cats and dogs, from golden labs that brought years of loyal companionship to calico cats with their independent charm. Their mini goldendoodle, Alf—named after the beloved TV character—was a special treasure, his affectionate nature and playful spirit bringing smiles and warmth to every corner of their lives.

Behind these rich experiences were two dedicated professionals who balanced career and family with grace. Arthur’s work as a physician reflected his lifelong commitment to caring for others, while Cathy blended her role as a social worker with the nurturing heart of a homemaker. After nearly half a century in the vibrant city of Miami, the couple embraced a new chapter in Madison, Wisconsin, moving in March 2025 to be closer to their son Adam and to become cherished members of Renaissance Senior Living of Hilldale.

Today, Arthur’s eyes light up at the roar of football games, his loyalty unwavering regardless of the team, while Cathy immerses herself in the suspense of thrillers and mysteries, the tactile pleasure of board games and puzzles, and the joy of musical performances that stir the soul. Together, they thrive on lively conversations and spirited debates, especially when it comes to politics, sharing their wisdom and zest for life with everyone they meet.

Arthur and Cathy Bregman’s story is a radiant example of love’s enduring power, a celebration of shared dreams and the simple beauty of everyday moments. Their warm smiles, vibrant energy, and generous hearts make them a treasured part of our Renaissance family. We are deeply grateful for the joy they bring and eagerly look forward to many more memories made together.